You asked for it ...

Megan recently asked her blog readers to ask me questions ... Some of you took her up on the request. So, here are your questions and my answers. Thanks, Chris

What’s my dream date? Megan is fond of the simple pleasures of life and she’s teaching me to appreciate them more. I recall going to great lengths in attempts to create “dream dates” for Megan only to later discover that she prefers slow dancing in our living room, cuddling, moonlit strolls and takeout from McAllister’s. I’ve learned that “dream dates” can’t really be planned and definitely can’t be bought. They just happen—usually in quiet places when it’s just the two of us.

Favorite dish that Megan makes? Megan has lots of incredible recipes and loves to cook. My favorite constantly changes but today I think it’s her homemade pizza, a recipe that was passed down to her from her grandfather. I’m sure I can get her to post it if she hasn’t already.

Favorite place you've visited? This would have been a tough question a few years ago because I’ve traveled a lot and I think I would have had a 10-way tie for my favorite. But on our honeymoon, Megan and I spent a day at Discovery Cove in Orlando, Fla. It was the closest I’ve ever come to having a perfect day … so it would be my favorite.

Favorite part of being a new dad? Falling in love at first sight with my little baby boy was a completely overwhelming and wonderful moment. Just being with him and loving him is my favorite part of fatherhood.

Worst part of being a new dad? I am constantly worried about him. Will he continue to be healthy? How will he ever grow to be a godly man in this messed up world? Is he still breathing? I better check. You name it, I’ve worried about it.

How does it feel to be the son-in-law of a living legend? Is it intimidating? I’ll admit there’s a bit of an intimidation factor being Mike’s son-in-law. He’s a very strong guy who I know could snap my neck with one hand while polishing his rifle with the other. The good news for me is that I know Mike is on my side. Mike and Leigh Ann were supportive of me dating Megan from day 1 and they’ve been incredibly generous to boot. Let me take this opportunity to brag on my very giving in-laws: Mike and Leigh Ann took us to Panama City for a weeklong vacation, paid for our dream wedding, have taken us out to eat dozens of times, gave us a car, invite us over every Sunday for a huge and delicious dinner, buy Lincoln tons of clothes and watch him whenever we ask. And instead of saying goodbye to us, Mike usually ends our time together by saying: “Let me know if you need anything.” By the way, we’ve been double blessed because my parents also are super giving.

How many children do you plan to have? I’ve learned that God laughs at our plans so who knows! It’s been awhile since Megan and I talked about this … but the last time we did, we both said we’d like to have at least two and maybe three. We also have talked about adopting. But we’re open to whatever God wants. It’s funny that He gave us Lincoln so early into our marriage. It wasn’t our plan to get pregnant a month after saying our vows, but it certainly has been a huge blessing. He’s only been around four months and already I can’t imagine life without the little guy.

What made you fall in love with Megan? I got to know Megan slowly … We led Wednesday night worship together for two years at our old church and became good friends. Then, one day, it dawned on me that I wanted to be more than Megan’s friend. It was like the light came on. The next thing I knew, I literally couldn’t stop thinking about Megan—her smile, laugh, voice, and complete goodness. I found myself counting down the hours until our next practice session. It was there that I told her how I felt. After dating for a few weeks, I knew for sure that I was in love. It was very easy to fall head over hills. She lives for God, strives for purity, is honest, caring, giving, makes me laugh until I hurt, and can whip up a mean homemade pizza. By the way, seeing her care for our son makes me love her even more. She’s incredible.